Ang Buhay sa Pananaw Ko, Pake Mo? entry#02

Somethings are meant to be broken.

Obviously, it's true. As others say, "if it's meant to be, it will be.".

So "meant to be" here means, something you cannot change just because you don't like it.

Broken heart.
Broken promises
Broken family
Broken friendship
And yeah, what else can be broken?

Let's say a friend of yours just broke a promise.
That broken promise will break your heart.
And because of the pain your friend caused you, you can't trust him anymore.
And without trust, friendship cannot stand.
From then on, everything turns grey. You're a part of a broken family, and this friend of yours is all you've got. But you can't trust him anymore.

It's like Whoa! What a life you've got there!

And then you'll start asking "why?".
You'll start blaming people around you.
You'll start cursing people. Cursing life.
You'll start thinking "life is unfair".

Let me ask you this, if life is unfair for everyone, is it fair then?

Don't be blinded by anger and sadness.

There's a reason why your friend broke that promise. The question is, did you bother asking what that reason is?

Or maybe you know the reason and it doesn't make any sense to you. Think again.

Because maybe, just maybe, it makes perfect sense to the other person.

Somethings are meant to be broken.

The good news is, sa bawat bagay na nasisira, may nakalaan na manggagawa.

Broken friendship can be fixed by forgiveness.
Broken heart can be fixed by the fixed friendship.

Broken promise? Throw it away together with your sadness and anger.

Parang brown out lang yan. Don't panic in the dark, you'll just stumble. Babalik din naman ang liwanag. Kung medyo matagal yung brown out, light a candle.

#Meant to be: blaming is not an option